I’m presently in my own 3rd interracial relationship.
That is, from Puerto Rico and got me in a lot of trouble with my dad unless you count my first boyfriend – Jose – who, in the second grade, long-distance collect-called me. Then it is my 4th interracial relationship.
And even though interracial dynamics constantly put in a layer of work to love, it is essential to notice that I’m white.
Because whenever you’re a person that is white an interracial relationship, there’s this whole – ohhh, ya understand – white supremacy thing hanging floating around.
And therefore needs to be acknowledged – and managed – constantly.