This is the attitude that is wrong. “Making” somebody reveal one thing they would like to keep personal is interrogation, maybe perhaps maybe not friendship.
If no matter, it mustn’t matter. Meaning, if you prefer this person and wish to be buddies with him, simply allow the relationship develop because it would with anybody brand new that you know.
I am not yet determined about what “. Hell, We myself work jokingly being a homosexual seldom with close friends…” means, but quite truthfully, it does not sound good.
This feels like a truly big problem for you – whether someone you love and so are getting be friends with is homosexual. He might be, he might never be, however the reality if i were the other guy that you need to know now before the friendship goes any further would be a red flag for me.
The new buddy can be asking himself some concerns since you have “made light, indirect hints” as to his sexuality and how you feel about it about you. Their concerns may possibly not be regarding your sex but why you’re therefore enthusiastic about their.
Why can you work homosexual often? Do you ponder over it funny? Do you realy hang with individuals that find it funny? I’m sure people do discover that funny, however the couple of homosexuals I am aware (of both genders) usually do not be thankful when it isn’t carried out by a understood homosexual, and locate it demeaning because it attracts alienation.